Before knowing Christ I was raised in an abusive home with an
alcoholic dad. I was asked to leave my home whenever I was sixteen due
to having a friendship with a person of another race. I lived in Tennessee
so this wasn't unusual for the one town I lived in. After living on
the streets with a friend I linked up with for a year, she was murdered.
At that point I tried to get off the streets and went to work at a trucking
company for a rock yard in which I was raped by my employer. At this
point I called a high school friend and she allowed me to stay with
her family for awhile. Both of her parents were Christians and active
in the church. What a blessing!!! I didn't accept Christ while living
with them but at least had the exposure I so desperately needed.
By the age of 18 my mother and dad had divorced so I went with my mum
to Washington State and attended college. At the end of my 18th birthday
I moved back to Tennessee to be with my brother.
During a date with someone I was raped again. This time it resulted
in a pregnancy. The guy said that he loved me after he found out and
we had to be married. From this marriage I also had another beautiful
daughter. Someone invited me to attend a revival with them at their
church in which I agreed to do. The day after the revival was over the
pastors came to my home and spoke with me. I accepted Christ at that
moment and went just a short time later to be baptized. My husband became
extremely abusive around that time and started doing drugs and stealing.
My pastor let me know that he was also breaking into the houses of people
in the church and that I should think of a separation to keep my daughters
and me safe. I did separate and went to live in Arkansas.
A short time later (1 month) he shot himself through the stomach. He
didn't die but was committed to an institution. Whenever released they
caught him trying to cross the state line with a gun and a goal of killing
us. At that point I did divorce him and he was told that if he crossed
the line that he would be put back into the institution. For a year
in Arkansas I attended school and worked two jobs to support my family.
We had a wonderful time and I grew a lot in Christ. We attended church
weekly and I even became the church secretary.
In 1989 I was introduced by my sister in Washington to a man whose wife
had left him for another man. He was raising three children on his own
and was just needing someone who could understand things to write him.
I wrote my first letter to him and three days later I received his letter
back. Things took off from there and in 1990 we were married. What a
blessing he is to me. We have now been married for 7 years. He is finishing
up his license to become a pastor and I now work with an agency that
is called Crisis Pregnancy Center. Our family still has 5 children in
it but they have all accepted Christ as their Saviour.
Outside of work I do many various projects that involve working with
younger people in order to keep them on the right track of knowing Christ.
I praise God for taking me from the streets and giving me shelter, safety,
food, clothing and many other blessings at the same time. Even before
I got off the streets He watched over me and didn't allow me to die
like my friend. He has a purpose and how awesome our God is!!!
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